Navigating Countertransference: A Guide for Couples Therapists with Sindee Gozansky, LCPC

In this episode of the Heart-Centered Therapist podcast, host Sindee Gozansky dives into the important topic of countertransference in couples therapy. She explains what countertransference is and why it’s something all therapists experience.

 

Sindee shares relatable examples like favoring one partner, feeling triggered by anger, and avoiding conflict, and offers practical tips on how to handle these situations.

 

She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, being curious, reflection and  supervision. The episode reassures therapists that countertransference is a normal part of the job and can actually help improve therapy if managed well. Tune in for some great insights and tips to deepen your practice!

 

00:00 Introduction to Countertransference

00:25 Understanding Countertransference

01:21 Impact of Unrecognized Countertransference

01:53 Managing Countertransference

03:06 Practical Examples of Countertransference

03:39 Siding with One Partner

06:56 Handling Anger in Therapy

08:58 Avoiding Conflict and Wanting to Be Liked

11:34 Dealing with Dominant Partners

13:41 Avoiding Confrontation

16:04 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

 

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